Learning 'small talk'?
On Thursday, 7 December, our Senior Lecturer in Sociology and Social Policy, Dr Cynog Prys, spoke on BBC Radio Cymru's Dros Ginio programme about a recent development where universities in America have started giving lessons to students about how to make small talk.
American universities have expressed concern that young people have lost the ability to make small talk, for various reasons, from the Covid-19 pandemic to the dependent use of smartphones. They are of the opinion that it is important for people to be able to have easy interactions with others. In other words, to grease the wheels of social interaction.
What exactly is small talk?
‘Small talk is a type of verbal exchange between individuals, the ability to be with people we don't know, or people we have a relationship with. Usually, small talk is intended to appear friendly and welcoming. Not talking about anything important – filling time. We usually try to portray ourselves in a positive way (e.g. I'm a nice person!)' said Dr Cynog Prys.
Small talk is also a social ritual, where we are taught that it is important for us to do it. The trouble is that small talk happens much less often.
'For that, it is very important. It shows respect for people, a way of being welcoming, and of portraying ourselves in a favourable light,' adds Dr Cynog Prys. 'Also, taking part in social rituals like this reinforces that there is order within society. Helping grease the wheels of society and making sure that society runs smoothly.'
Small talk is a social phenomenon of huge importance and you can hear more about this by listening to Dr Cynog Prys' interview: (55:38 into the programme).